Deal-breakers, name combos, and stupid bus pass realization

I almost can't believe that K thought I'd break up with him over the reason he posited yesterday. Maybe if it were some far-flung place a zillion miles across the world or some totally rural environment... but not Kamloops. I appreciate his loving honesty, since I'd expect to give him the same if something happened to me! I'll always love him, even if the unthinkable happens. (he knows this)

Examples of my personal deal-breakers: coming from a totally different value set than me, having weird sexual fetishes, porn / gambling / drug / alcohol / nicotine addiction, total disrespect for the people I love, being abusive / severely manipulative. Moving to Kamloops where I don't know a lot of people? Eh... that's probably way down on the list, if it's on the list at all. I guess I can try to do stuff for him, although he knows it'll be hard. Yikes!


Man, it's been far too long since I checked blogs. Guess I'll do this right before I go to the glasses place and such - Chapters better have two copies of the FINAL EXITS book for me and Jeremy, or else I will be very disappointed! I'll probably have dinner at Pho, haha... or not, since I don't have the cash for it now! Must also remember to talk to Auntie Rebecca about Awana this weekend since I missed out last week.

OH CRAP. It appears I've done the exact same thing this year as regards losing my bus pass as I did last year, and at around the same time too! At least this time I realized it / can take care of it within a few days as opposed to a week or something! Note to self: CHECK POCKETS OF STUFF YOU THROW OUT! At least Jon can tell Jeremy the story of this one if he chooses to - last year's story was NOT something I'd want him to know, liking him as a good friend or not. There's such a thing as TMI!


Randal's been keeping up his prayer blogging, and said that a former friend once told him something like "You're not funny, so don't even try." Not the greatest example of constructive criticism, and the person couldn't take it when Randal pointed out that HE couldn't seem to attract women even with his sense of humor. Randal then writes that he could just go around being a male version of Cassandra (my interpretation of his words), proclaiming the pessimistic view of things EVERYWHERE! Ha ha ha, I don't think I'd like that if my friend did that. Says he's never formed any lasting friendships with women when he tries being funny - oh, he can be very amusing! Vanessa, Steph, Danielle, and others seem to think so too - but they're way too young for him / kinda taken already. (I remember the hand cream auction email story, haha)

Then he prays that God gives his mom peace of mind about his being single: seems his brother's wife alienated him and such from the family, so his mom is very interested in a new daughter-in-law, and asks Randal every week if he's seeing someone! The alienation is not good especially when you're in a Chinese family! His mom is disappointed that there seem to be no interested sisters at VCEFC, and even suggests that he go to a bigger church presumably for a bigger pool of available females!

Dawn's been busy reading and spending time with Eni in Vernon for Canada Day, and housesitting in Richmond. She misses Richmond, but she won't miss a certain Tibetan terrier she had to take care of while her friends are in Alaska! Poop and pee all over the place does NOT sound pleasant, and at least the Yorkie was much more a joy to maintain. (it even looked DISGUSTED at its companion not confining its bathroom duties to the assigned areas!) I wouldn't want that job, either - but at least it's over for her! Vivian's just been doing school stuff, has MSN convo up, reflects on Xanga, and figures that at least she isn't locked out in a state of being underdressed! Oh my. o_O

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